Homemade Mother’s Day Gifts for Kids of All Ages

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With Mother’s Day right around the corner, here are a few ideas for kids of all ages to “make” something special for their Mom!


Moms really appreciate homemade gifts. They often become keepsakes. No one is too young or too old to make Mom a gift by hand, even if you have to help. Here are some ideas for homemade Mother’s Day gifts for all ages.







1. Toddlers and Preschoolers


This age will obviously need some help, but some of the most precious gifts can come from the hands of this age group. Such as:


* Dough pendant necklace – Using your favorite bake-to-harden modeling dough recipe (an easy one is to mix 1 cup flour, 1/4 cup of salt, and 1/3 cup water), create flat, cookie-like shapes. Put a hole through the top and bake the shape at 350 degrees F for 30-60 minutes (until edges are brown). Paint pendant as desired after the shape is cool.


Variation: make a pin by hot-gluing a safety pin to the back of the cooled, painted shape. 


* Using kid-safe, washable paint, help little ones make hand or foot prints on paper and frame the results. 


* Press flowers and leaves for several days; when dry, help your little one lay them on the sticky side of clear contact paper. Cover with another sheet of clear paper and give to mom for wall art, a bookmark, or a placemat.  


2. Grade School 


Here are some ideas for grade school kids who are more independent.


* Homemade frames – You can make picture frames out of twigs or craft foam. Twig frames can be easel-style or flat. Just attach twigs at the corners using a hot glue gun (adults only should use the glue gun), and cover joints with twine. Cut craft foam to fit around a photo, and glue craft foam designs (such as flowers) onto the frame.


* Flower pots – Use flower pots to make a useful pen/pencil holder (attach paper flowers to the ends of the pens/pencils), or to start a seed or small plant. Flower pots can be painted, too, and handmade paper flowers make a floral display that won’t wilt. 


3. Middle School and High School


Older kids can branch out into more sophisticated crafts. 


* Totes – You can use a blank canvas bag and apply family photos, fabric paint, applique, or other techniques to make Mom a handy, personalized tote bag. If you like to sew, you can create a tote out of your old baby or childhood clothes.  


* Mugs – For a coffee- or tea-drinking mom, a personal mug can be a great gift. Hand-paint a blank mug with ceramic paints that you can bake in the oven to make them permanent. 


* Necklace – Create a beautiful necklace using upholstery thread and pretty beads. You’ll need needle-nose pliers and a sewing needle to thread smaller beads. 


Make Mother’s Day special for your Mom!  Make her something she will cherish because it came from YOU with lots of LOVE!

Secret Family Recipes: Chicken and Rice Casserole

Here is a super easy recipe for Chicken and Rice Casserole.  My kids LOVE it.  I usually make a lot of it, and freeze it in separate casserole dishes so on softball game nights, I can pull one out in the morning to defrost, and stick it in the oven when I get home from work!





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Chicken and Rice Casserole

This takes approximately 90 minutes to prepare and 105 minutes to cook

Serves 6

Ingredients
1 package of chicken parts with bone and skin
2 cups milk
2 cups uncooked white rice
2 large cans of condensed cream of chicken soup
2 teaspoon salt





Directions

Boil chicken parts with bone and skin in a large pot for 90 minutes, or until the chicken easily falls off the bone. Remove skin and bones and hand shred chicken. Put to the side. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. In a large bowl combine the milk, rice, soup and salt. Mix well. Pour mixture into a lightly greased 9×13 inch baking dish. Add the shredded chicken on top. Cover dish tightly with aluminum foil and bake in the preheated oven for 90 minutes or until rice is done, stirring every 30 minutes. Uncover the dish and bake for another 15 minutes to allow the rice to brown.

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This Girl’s No Expert’s Finally Friday Celebrity News

This Girl’s No Expert loves people magazine, so we’ve decided to start posting an article every Friday for our Finally Friday Celebrity News post!

Motherhood Makes Beyoncé Feel ‘More Beautiful Than Ever’

BY ALEXIS CHIU
Wednesday April 25, 2012 07:50 AM EDT

Article from www.people.com

She’s an entertainment force of nature, 16-time Grammy winner, and beauty and style icon. But Beyoncé is proudest of one title that also happens to be her most recent: mommy to little Blue Ivy Carter.

“I feel more beautiful than I’ve ever felt because I’ve given birth,” says PEOPLE’s 2012 World’s Most Beautiful Woman. “I have never felt so connected, never felt like I had such a purpose on this earth.”

The “Crazy in Love” singer, 30, and her husband of four years, Jay-Z, 42, have gone gaga for Blue, born Jan. 7 in New York City. “She’s just the cutest thing,” gushes Beyoncé, who croons one-of-a-kind tunes to her daughter and professes to “love” changing diapers.

PHOTOS: Sneak Peek: See Beyoncé Like Never Before

So who does her daughter most resemble? “She looks like Blue,” says Beyoncé, who is back to her pre-pregnancy weight and gearing up for her first post-baby concerts, Memorial Day weekend at the Revel Atlantic City. “She’s her own person.”

“The best thing about having a daughter is having a true legacy,” she adds. “The word ‘love’ means something completely different now.”

For more of Beyoncé’s exclusive interview – in which she shares her beauty secrets, reveals how she lost the baby weight and sets the record straight on all the rumors – pick up this week’s special issue of PEOPLE, on newsstands Friday.

Inside Beyoncé’s Most Beautiful Cover Shoot

To view this article in it’s entirety  please visit:  http://www.people.com/people/package/article/0,,20360857_20589758,00.html

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Teen Babysitting Basics

Teen Babysitting Basics

When you were growing up, you might not have heard about babysitter training. But today, there are classes and certifications to train tweens or teens on how to be a safe and effective babysitter. Teens learn that there is more to babysitting than just being in the same room with a baby or child; they learn basic skills and, in some cases, special skills like CPR. And all these qualifications can certainly enhance a teen’s resume.  My 12 year old daughter took a babysitting course at our local hospital about 10 days after my 11 month old was born.  It was an all day Saturday class, and she had a great time!  She learned many valuable things about emergency situations while babysitting that will be very beneficial to her, especially since we have a baby in the house!  I highly recommend tweens or teens to take a babysitting course.  Not only did she learn child care basics, she got CPR certified, learned the Heimlich maneuver and learned what to do in emergency situations, including bad weather!

Where Are Classes Held?

There are various places where teens can seek babysitter training. Your local hospital, YWCA, Red Cross chapter, or community center may offer classes, or have information on where and when classes are held. You can search online under “babysitter training classes” or “childcare training.”

What Can You Expect from the Classes?

There are several basic categories of babysitting classes. Some of them are simply advice and tips on childcare, whereas others delve into first aid and child safety. Nearly all types of classes are of some benefit. Here are some of the things you’ll learn at a babysitting class or classes:

* What games and activities are appropriate for what ages. This can be really helpful when you’re trying to figure out what to do with your charges.

* Child safety, including CPR and the Heimlich maneuver. Sometimes this is called “lifesaver training,” and can really give you an edge with clients who want to know their child or baby is safe.

* Basic first aid, including what to do in an emergency.

* Basic understanding of babies, children, and how they act, which can go a long way toward preventing problems. In this day and age of “shaken baby syndrome,” parents are more concerned than ever that their babysitters know how to keep calm when baby cries, and have been trained as to what they can expect regarding crying.

* Handbooks are sometimes given out for babysitters to take with them to jobs. Red Cross classes usually give out this kind of handbook to class participants.

* Basic do’s and don’ts which sometimes need to be spelled out for young teens, such as not tying up the phone line with social calls, or not inviting friends over to the place where you’re babysitting.

You can also expect to obtain higher-paying clients if you have taken babysitting classes, especially if you earn a certification.

How Much Do Babysitting Classes Cost?

Sometimes you can find classes for free, such as at your school or online. Other times you may have to pay a fee, but sources say these fees are not usually high – about $25 to $50. Teen Babysitting Basics

FREE eBook for Mother’s Day – Happily Married with Kids: It’s Not a Fairy Tale

What an amazing offer! 
It’s the Award-Winning Marriage eBook 
Happily Married With Kids: It’s Not a Fairy Tale 
FREE for Mother’s Day!!
This Girl’s No Expert is very excited to be doing a review of this book for Granny Apple Publishing, LLC!  
Stay tuned for my review and a GIVEAWAY of the paperback version of 
Happily Married With Kids: It’s Not a Fairy Tale, by Carol Ummel Lindquist, Ph.D
LAGUNA BEACH, CA, April 15, 2012 – Carol Ummel Lindquist, clinical psychologist and author, today announced that she is celebrating her book being named Best Marriage Book in the About.com 2012 Readers’ Choice Awards by offering the eBook version FREE all day on Saturday May 5 and Sunday May 6 at http://amzn.to/IZ71VZ The FREE offer will be open again May 10th,11th & 12th.
 

“I am honored by this recognition from one of the web’s largest websites and also the positive reviews that are coming in from so many of my readers,” said Dr. Lindquist. “I am confident that my book will help all couples and want to help more people benefit from it in the days and weeks ahead. A good marriage relationship is the best gift for yourself, your spouse, your kids—and everyone else around you!”

About “Happily Married With Kids: It’s Not a Fairy Tale”

This book is currently available through Amazon.com as a quality trade paperback for $16.95 http://amzn.to/IEWnsv and an eBook for $7.95 http://amzn.to/IZ71VZ or a free Kindle Prime eBook “borrow.”

The book shows what you can do to make your marriage better and grow closer to your spouse after the kids arrive. It is engaging, fun and practical and filled with easy-to-follow tips to help you work toward a warm, loving relationship that will last a lifetime.

About Carol Ummel Lindquist, Ph.D.

Dr. Lindquist is clinical psychologist, therapist and marriage counselor in Laguna Beach, California. Her book, “Happily Married With Kids: It’s Not a Fairy Tale,” was written as a love note to her husband, Neil, who never read a self-help book in his life—until this one. Together they raised two sons. She is known for helping couples create a “Vision Statement” for their marriage and also for her work with high conflict couples and trauma therapy for individuals.

Read more about Dr. Carol’s practice at http://www.cullagunabeach.com and about her book at http://www.doctorcarol.com

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April 24th 2012 Blog Hop

This Girl’s No Expert, but… I do know an awful lot about step-parenting

Welcome to 2012.  The age where unfortunately, divorce is seen in almost every household nationwide, and blended families are more common than not.  Being previously divorced after 7 ½ years of marriage, I can promise you that I do not take marriage lightly, nor did I not have every intention to stay married to my ex-husband.  Lord knows I tried, but there are some things you just have no control over, no matter how badly you want to make it work.  If I learned anything in that marriage, it’s that the only person’s actions I have control over are my own.  It also showed me what I DON’T want in a marriage.  So, when I met my husband of almost 5 years now, I knew exactly what I wanted and didn’t want in a marriage.  And because he was previously married as well, he knew the same.  But, that’s another story entirely.  Today, I want to focus on something I have learned a lot about… step-parenting.
When I met my husband, I had an almost 7 year old little girl and he had a 3 year old little girl.  Very quickly, the girls bonded and became instant sisters.  And I was lucky enough to witness what a wonderful father this man really was.  He would move heaven and earth to see his daughter.  Still does. I’m talking, drive 3 hours to go watch a one hour soccer game, and then turn around and come home.  He never misses a child support payment.  He calls her several times a week.  He is such an amazing father, which was a big reason as to why I fell so deeply in love with him.  My ex-husband never saw my daughter.  He never paid child support.  He always tried to make me feel guilty for wanting child support.  He would forget to call.  Of course, I never thought it would come to that with my ex-husband, but hey… it turns out I had no idea who he was to begin with…. Yes, that’s another story too. So for today, I’ll stick to my chosen topic.
 In 2007, my husband and I married and created our instant family of four.  In 2009, my ex-husband signed away his rights to my daughter and my husband adopted her.  He treats her as his own.  He practices softball with her every single day, takes her to every practice, attends every game.  He loves her as his own and I couldn’t ask for a better daddy for my 12 year old girl.  He introduces her as his daughter.  Everyone that sees him with her says “She must look like her mother”, and he just says “Yes, she does!” because it’s obvious her tanned skin, brown hair, brown eyed self looks nothing like him!  But he would never say that she wasn’t his daughter, because in every way that counts, she is.
My step-daughter on the other hand looks VERY much like him.  She has got the funniest personality I have ever seen in a child.  She is 8 going on 21 for sure.  She is very inquisitive, very attentive, super smart and won’t let you forget ANYTHING!  My step-daughter and I have had our issues in the past, but since giving birth to OUR daughter (that’s right, three girls… his, mine and ours) my step-daughter has been the sweetest, most polite and caring little girl you could ever meet.  But it wasn’t always like that. 
There has been times when my step-daughter would say things to me that I KNEW she didn’t come up with on her own…  I am trying EXTREMELY hard to keep from speaking negatively about my husband’s ex-wife, so I will keep the comments on that to a minimum.  So, I’ll just say that my step-daughter at times, tried very hard to push my buttons, with some obvious coaching.  My point is there have been times that being an active step-mom to a little girl that also has a very active mom has been difficult.  But I can’t let her get a rise out of me, because it’s obvious that is the intention of the button pushing coach.  The only thing I can do is be the bigger person.  To rise above the very adult comments coming out of a very little girl’s mouth.  I keep telling myself that one day my step-daughter will decide for herself what kind of person I am.  And the only way I know to approach that, is to keep being the person that I am.  To keep loving her… to keep being there for her no matter what.
Since our 11 month old daughter was born, my step-daughter has made amazing progress towards building a relationship with me.  She waits at the door for me to come home if she gets there before I do, she runs to my car to give me a hug as soon as I pull in.  She asks if I need help cleaning, or doing dishes.  She volunteers to help with the baby.  She hugs me and tells me she loves me before she goes to bed.  She has completely opened up to me.  She tells me things that are going on at school with the other kids that she doesn’t even tell her dad.  I’m not sure why the change took place once the baby was born, but I am just grateful that it did.  I am so happy that we are building a meaningful relationship.  And it’s not just because I’m her dad’s wife.  It’s because she honestly trusts me and respects me.  I like to think the reason for this change is from me continuing to be the person that I am, and not getting wrapped up in the “baby mama drama”.  She has also gotten a little older, and like I have always told myself she would do, she has forged her own opinion about me based on what she has seen and how she has been treated by me, regardless of what the button pushing coach says.  I know as she gets older, it won’t always be easy.  There will be times when she is a teenager, that she will hate me.  There will be times that she hates her mother.  But, we just have to keep going, and keep loving our children regardless.
Parenting is hard… Step-parenting can be downright difficult.  But all of it is worth it. Being a step-parent can and should be very rewarding.   If you are faced with a situation where you aren’t sure how to handle the step-parenting aspects of a new marriage and the blended family, my advice is this: treat the child as your own.  Love them. Listen.  Be there for them.  Make sure they know that you won’t tolerate disrespect in your home, but also make sure they know that they don’t HAVE to love you.  I had to explain that to my step-daughter a few years ago when she told my oldest daughter that she didn’t love me anymore.  The only reason she said it was because I was in the same room, and she was trying to get a reaction.  I bent down to her at eye level and I told her that she didn’t have to love me, but she did need to be nice to me when she was at my house.  And that even if she doesn’t love me, I will always love her just as much as I love my own daughter.  So now when she tells me she loves me, I know it’s because she truly does.  After all, I told her she didn’t HAVE to love me… yet she does anyway.
And one last bit of advice:  Never talk bad about the child’s “other parent” to the child or even around the child.  Chances are, when they are older, they will decide for themselves who is worthy of sharing the details of their lives with.  And if you always hold your head up high and don’t stoop to the level of name calling and childish antics, chances are that person will be you.  I love being a mom.  And I feel blessed to have been given the challenge of being a step-parent.  I only hope to be the step-parent to my step-daughter that my step-dad was to me… yes, that’s also another story.  You’ll just have to stay tuned!

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